Despite being one of football’s most talked-about couples, Bukayo Saka and his fiancée, Tolami Benson, are planning to keep their wedding as personal and intimate as possible.
Speaking in an interview with The Sunday Times Style, Benson revealed that while public interest in their relationship continues to grow, she has little desire for a lavish, highly publicized ceremony.
Instead, she hopes their special day will remain centered on the couple rather than social media attention.
The comments come as Saka continues his World Cup campaign with England, fresh from the team‘s dramatic 3-2 victory over Mexico.
Eloping Would Be Her Ideal Choice
Benson admitted that, if it were entirely up to her, she would even consider eloping.
She explained that although her family—particularly her mother—might not approve, she believes marriage should remain a deeply personal commitment between two people.
Rather than chasing the “perfect” online wedding aesthetic, she wants a celebration focused on genuine enjoyment and meaningful memories.
While she values privacy for the ceremony itself, she acknowledged there is one tradition she hopes will be anything but quiet: an energetic, old-school hen party that she described as “wild and chaotic.”
A Relationship That Has Stayed Largely Out of Public View
Saka and Benson have carefully guarded the details of their relationship since they reportedly began dating in 2020.
Although the pair announced their engagement in December 2025 with a stylish Vogue photo shoot, they have continued to avoid sharing much about their personal lives.
That approach appears set to continue as they prepare for marriage, with Benson emphasizing that not every milestone needs to be experienced in public.
From Public Relations Graduate to Fashion Influencer
While Benson has become one of football’s most recognizable partners, her rise in the fashion industry has been rapid.
Born in Hertfordshire, she graduated from Birmingham City University with a degree in public relations and, as recently as 2024, was working in account management before transitioning into full-time content creation and fashion influencing.
Her growing profile has been boosted by collaborations with major brands, including the launch of her own fashion collection with River Island.
She has also featured prominently in Vogue, which credited her with helping spark renewed interest in football’s WAG culture.
Today, she commands an Instagram audience of more than 288,000 followers.
Signature Matchday Fashion Wins Arsenal Fans’ Attention
Benson has also earned recognition among Arsenal supporters for her distinctive matchday outfits, many of which subtly reference Saka’s football career.
One of her standout looks featured a bespoke leather biker jacket created by designer Antonia Bronze, incorporating a tribute to Saka’s original Arsenal squad number, 87.
Her creative wardrobe choices have made her one of the Premier League’s most closely watched football partners.
Couple Steps Out for Saka’s Documentary Premiere
The pair were recently seen together at the New York City premiere of Saka’s upcoming Disney+ documentary, Bukayo Saka: The Time Is Now.
Directed by Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Robert Alexander, the documentary was developed in partnership with Saka, Modern Arts and WhatsApp.
It is scheduled for release on Disney+ while also airing on Fox in the United States.
The film explores Saka’s journey from his childhood in Ealing to becoming one of England’s leading footballers, while also highlighting the personal relationships that have supported him throughout his career.
Documentary Highlights Thierry Henry’s Influence
A central feature of the documentary is an in-depth conversation between Saka and Arsenal legend Thierry Henry, as the two discuss the demands of elite football, resilience and the pressures that accompany success.
The film also revisits one of the most difficult moments of Saka’s career—his penalty miss in the UEFA Euro 2020 final against Italy when he was just 19 years old.
According to the production, the documentary reveals how encouragement from Henry, including a meaningful WhatsApp message, helped reshape Saka’s outlook during that challenging period.
Saka Reflects on the People Behind His Success
Speaking about the documentary, Saka said the project gave him an opportunity to share aspects of his life that supporters rarely get to see.
He explained that while fans witness the goals and performances on the pitch, they often do not see the dedication, sacrifices and support network behind the scenes.
Saka credited the people who stood by him long before his rise to stardom, saying their encouragement has remained vital throughout his journey.
As the England star continues to focus on World Cup success, both he and Benson appear determined to keep their future wedding rooted in the same values that have defined their relationship—privacy, authenticity and family.
