While many celebrities often share glimpses of their personal lives, Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling have kept their romance private since it began in 2011.
Recently, Mendes opened up in an interview with The Times, offering insights into their family life, their parenting philosophy, and a rather strict household rule.
A Digital Detox for Their Kids
One of the most surprising revelations is the couple’s decision to restrict their home-schooled daughters from using smartphones and social media.
Mendes emphasized the importance of this choice, comparing allowing their kids online access to sending them out alone in the middle of the night.
“Putting my kid on the internet and being like, ‘Oh, search something,’ feels like I’m just telling her it’s safe, and it’s not,” she explained.
This approach reflects their commitment to protecting their children in an increasingly digital world.
Teaching Gratitude and Resilience
Mendes, who shares two daughters—Esmeralda, 10, and Amada, 8—with Gosling, also emphasizes the importance of teaching them about privilege.
She often recounts stories from her own upbringing, highlighting the financial struggles she and Gosling faced growing up.
“I explain to them what I didn’t have, what Ryan didn’t have, and how hard we had to fight,” she shared, recognizing that understanding comes from experience, something her daughters will have to learn over time.
Building Confidence Through Responsibility
Amidst her own battles with anxiety, Mendes is keen on instilling self-esteem in her daughters.
She encourages them to take on household tasks to help build their confidence.
Reflecting on her childhood in Miami, she credited her late brother for her good behavior, saying, “By sheer fear, I was a good kid.”
This recognition of how past experiences shape parenting choices is a key aspect of Mendes’ approach.
Feeling Empowered and Beautiful
Beyond parenting, Mendes also spoke about her relationship with Gosling, crediting him with making her feel desirable in her 50s.
“I feel really f**king sexy at times,” she admitted, highlighting how his affection boosts her self-image.
This candid admission showcases the deep connection they share, which has evolved since they first met on the set of The Place Beyond the Pines.
From On-Screen Romance to Real-Life Family
Their on-screen chemistry in The Place Beyond the Pines quickly blossomed into a real-life romance.
Mendes and Gosling portrayed a couple navigating love and challenges, and it was during this filming that Gosling realized he wanted to build a family with Mendes.
“I wasn’t thinking about kids before I met her, but after I met Eva, I just didn’t want to have kids without her,” he shared in a GQ interview.
The couple went public with their relationship at Disneyland, where they were spotted hand in hand, and made their red carpet debut at the Toronto International Film Festival in 2012.
Following the birth of their daughters, Mendes shifted her focus toward family life and creative projects, including her new picture book, Desi, Mami, And The Never-Ending Worries.
A New Creative Venture
Released on September 17, Mendes’ book tells the story of a young girl grappling with fears and worries.
“Every night begins with the same refrain: ‘MAMI! THERE’S A MONSTER UNDER MY BED!’” the book’s description notes.
Through the narrative, Mendes addresses how we all have scary thoughts that need managing, reinforcing the idea that with effort, things can improve.
As Mendes and Gosling navigate their busy lives, their dedication to each other and their family remains at the forefront, illustrating how love can flourish even amidst the chaos of celebrity life.
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