David Walliams has candidly shared insights about his gender identity and sexuality, revealing that he might identify as non-binary if today’s language and understanding had been available in his youth.
During a conversation on the Australian podcast Uncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps, the 53-year-old comedian and author reflected on how societal labels might have aligned with his personal experiences.
“I think in a way I’d probably say I am non-binary. I think. I don’t know exactly,” he admitted, expressing an openness to exploring the concept.
He recounted attending gay clubs during his university days, dancing for hours while wearing a skirt, and embracing an environment of self-expression and individuality.
Walliams also noted how his early work, such as his book The Boy in the Dress, celebrated differences and challenged norms long before gender conversations gained mainstream attention.
“I’ve always thought it’s exciting to celebrate differences,” he said.
Navigating Sexuality and Cultural Connections
In the same interview, Walliams reflected on his sexuality and its influence on his life.
When asked about being labeled “Britain’s most famous bi-curious comedian,” he acknowledged exploring relationships with men during his adolescence.
“Yeah, I’d say so. I was always at home with that as well,” he shared.
The comedian humorously compared himself to his Little Britain co-star Matt Lucas, noting their contrasting interests despite both being part of LGBTQ+ culture.
“Matt is gay, and he’s into football and musicals. I’d say I’m probably camper than him,” he quipped, highlighting the fluidity and individuality within identity.
Walliams also remarked that life might have been simpler if he were exclusively gay, as he’s drawn to aspects of gay culture.
His reflections underline the complexities of identity and the nuances that shape personal journeys.
Struggles with Mental Health
Beyond his reflections on identity, Walliams opened up about his battle with depression.
He recounted a particularly dark period during his university years when he attempted to take his own life.
His mother, Kathleen, discovered him unresponsive after an overdose and provided the unwavering support he needed to recover.
“Her boundless love got me through,” he said, expressing both gratitude and regret for the pain his actions caused her.
The comedian has spoken about his struggles with depression in his autobiography Camp David, where he described the loneliness and fear he experienced, particularly in the early morning hours.
Despite these challenges, Walliams has found solace and purpose in fatherhood.
Becoming a parent to his son Alfred shifted his focus and brought new meaning to his life.
“Your whole life starts revolving around them, and you stop dwelling on your own problems so much,” he shared during an appearance on Bear Grylls’ Mission.
A Mother’s Support and Encouragement
Kathleen Walliams has played a pivotal role in David’s life, fostering his flamboyant side and supporting his creative endeavors.
She once rented a wedding dress for him when he was cast as a queen in a school play, encouraging him to embrace his unique personality.
While his father, Peter, was initially skeptical about his comedy aspirations, Kathleen’s belief in him never wavered.
A Message of Hope
Walliams’ story is a testament to resilience and the power of self-acceptance.
His reflections on identity, struggles with mental health, and the transformative impact of parenthood serve as a reminder that support and understanding can help navigate life’s complexities.
For anyone struggling with similar issues, support is available.
Organizations like Samaritans offer help at 116 123, free from any phone.
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