Should A Woman Get Married Without Her Own Personal Income
In my own own opinion, a young woman who is not gainfully employed or has no job, skills that is fetching her money should NOT have think of going into marriage with any man no matter how much the man makes or how much you think he loves you, the only time I will okay such decision as a woman is if the man pays you a substantial salary every month just for being his wife which is not a bad idea anyways.
A certain social media user also drop her option, this is what she has to say
“The general idea you read online about independent / career young ladies been arrogant, ”can’t get married”, ”men detest them”, bla bla bla are all lies in reality. So long as you have good character and well behaved, men will be running after you to be your husband even if you are as rich as Dangote. (Who no like better thing?)
The young lady I met in the hospital yesterday, beaten up by her husband, truamatized and at the point of death, got me really mad and I feel like using a microphone to ask this question.
I pray she survive it.
My question is this?
Why do women goes into marriage without having any source of income on their own? Why?
And why do men prefer marrying young and fianancially helpless women, (village girls) then accuse her of not contributing fianancially, especially when fianancial obligations beomes too heavy in the marriage? Why?
What is your opinion on this?