Meghan’s Complex Role in the Royal Family
In a new royal book, Meghan Markle’s interactions with palace staff and her approach to life as a senior member of the Royal Family are explored in detail. According to the book Yes Ma’am – The Secret Life of Royal Servants, Meghan’s strong sense of purpose often led to clashes with palace staff. One of Harry and Meghan’s former staff members described the Duchess as having a “messiah complex,” although the intentions behind her big ideas were always about making a positive impact.
Meghan’s Aspirations: A Global Champion for the Marginalized
The former staff member shared that Meghan was deeply influenced by the legacy of her mother-in-law, Princess Diana.
Meghan’s ambition was to continue Diana’s work, stating, “What Diana started I want to finish.
” This comment led the staff to interpret that Meghan envisioned herself as a global advocate for the poor and marginalized, traveling the world to champion causes close to her heart.
Harry’s Support for Meghan Amid Tensions
Throughout these tensions with the palace, Prince Harry was always quick to defend Meghan.
Palace insiders noted that before he met Meghan, Harry had been relatively content, enjoying a good relationship with his brother, Prince William, and sister-in-law, Kate.
However, Harry was never entirely comfortable with the royal lifestyle.
He resented his role as the “spare” and was frustrated by the demands of royal life, such as “handshaking and small talk.”
When Meghan, an American actress, entered the picture, palace staff hoped she would give Harry a new sense of purpose.
They believed that she would keep him out of trouble and provide him with something meaningful to focus on.
However, Meghan’s ambitions were at odds with the expectations the palace had for her and Harry.
Meghan’s Desire for Independence
It quickly became clear that Meghan wanted to carve her own path, a desire that clashed with the roles set for her by the palace.
One of Queen Elizabeth II’s former courtiers remarked that Meghan felt constrained by the royal structure and wanted more freedom to pursue her personal goals.
Meanwhile, Harry, enamored with the possibility of doing things differently, stood by Meghan, defending her even when her ideas caused tension with palace officials.
The Shift in Harry’s Priorities
Before marrying Meghan, Harry’s priorities were much more centered on his royal duties and relationships within the family.
However, after the marriage, he began to see his role as more focused on supporting Meghan, especially her social justice efforts.
Friends and staff close to Harry noted how his views and priorities began to shift significantly once Meghan entered his life, particularly in terms of social issues and the rights of minorities.
Feeling Sidelined: The Couple’s Growing Frustration
As Harry and Meghan settled into Nottingham Cottage at Kensington Palace, tensions began to build.
Meghan reportedly felt neglected by the Royal Family, believing that they were “sidelining” her husband. Harry, in turn, began to recognize the limitations placed on him as the “spare” and became increasingly frustrated with how he was treated compared to his brother, Prince William.
This growing dissatisfaction led to frequent arguments between the couple and palace staff.
The Beginning of Megxit
The tensions ultimately led to the couple’s decision to step down from their roles as senior royals in January 2020, which caused a family rift that came to be known as “Megxit.
” The couple announced that they wanted to become financially independent while continuing to support Queen Elizabeth II.
This decision marked a dramatic shift for Harry and Meghan, as they sought to redefine their roles within the royal family.
Tensions with William and Kate
The book also delves into the complicated dynamics between Meghan and the Prince and Princess of Wales.
Meghan’s warm, physical approach—hugging and cheek-kissing—reportedly made Prince William uncomfortable.
Gossip about these interactions spread among palace staff, creating further tension and deepening the divide between the two brothers.
Although Meghan’s intentions were innocent, the gossip and ensuing tension added fuel to the growing rift within the royal family.
The Inside Scoop on Royal Life
Yes Ma’am – The Secret Life of Royal Servants offers a behind-the-scenes look at life within the Royal Family, told from the perspective of the staff who have worked with them.
This fascinating glimpse into royal life reveals the challenges, conflicts, and complexities that arise when personal ambitions collide with tradition.
The book, which will be published on February 18, is available for pre-order and promises to shed new light on the royal family’s inner workings.
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