Pauline Quirke, beloved star of Birds of a Feather, has been quietly battling dementia since her diagnosis in 2021.
Now, her family is sharing heartfelt insights into her condition, revealing how they are navigating each day while cherishing her humor and warmth.
Taking Things One Day at a Time
Pauline, 66, continues to show glimpses of her vibrant personality.
Her husband, Steve Sheen, and their son, Charlie, appeared on BBC Breakfast to discuss the challenges of understanding the progression of her illness.
Charlie explained that, despite the diagnosis, his mother remains affectionate and alert:
“My mum knows exactly who we are.
Every time she sees all of us, she smiles, laughs, says ‘I love you,’ says ‘hello.'”
Steve added that the family is learning to take each day as it comes:
“Unfortunately, we are not in the state where we can do much about it.
Just take every day and try and take the best moment out of that day you can.”
The Moment They Realized Something Was Wrong
The first signs came back in November 2020, when Pauline struggled to read a script.
Steve recalled that day vividly:
“She started reading it and she phoned me on that day and said, the words are not going in. That’s where it started.”
When doctors confirmed the diagnosis, the family initially struggled to accept it:
“We looked at each other and went, ‘Can’t be, it’s long Covid. Got the flu,'” Steve said.
Charlie emphasized that the unpredictable nature of dementia keeps them adjusting constantly:
“Her illness progresses and changes every day. We are forever learning.”
Stepping Back From Acting
Earlier this year, Pauline announced she would be stepping away from acting after three years of living with dementia.
Steve shared a statement reflecting on her incredible career:
“It is with a heavy heart that I announce my wife Pauline’s decision to step back from all professional and commercial duties due to her diagnosis of Dementia in 2021.”
Despite stepping away from the screen, Pauline’s influence continues through her charitable work and the Pauline Quirke Academy of Performing Arts (PQA), which she founded.
The academy nurtures talent across the UK, with over 250 academies and 15,000 students.
Celebrating a Storied Career
Pauline’s legacy in entertainment is vast. She is best known for her role as Sharon Theodopolopodous in Birds of a Feather, a sitcom that delighted audiences for nearly 30 years.
Her acting range also includes dramatic roles, such as a BAFTA-nominated performance in The Sculptress, and appearances in Emmerdale, Broadchurch, and numerous other TV and film productions.
Steve highlighted her achievements:
“During her epic 50-year career, Pauline has been nominated for many awards and, in 2022, she was awarded an MBE in the late Queen’s final Birthday Honours.”
Her contributions to the arts and charity work continue to inspire, even as she faces the challenges of dementia.
Family and Legacy
Pauline married Steve in 1996, and together they have a son, Charlie, 30, who has followed in his mother’s acting footsteps.
She also has a daughter, Emily, 40, from a previous relationship.
Through every moment, the family emphasizes love, laughter, and making the most of the present.
Pauline’s journey is a reminder of the importance of awareness, support, and cherishing time with loved ones.
Support and Awareness
For anyone affected by dementia or seeking guidance, support is available.
Resources and advice can be found at www.alzheimers.org.uk/symptoms or by contacting their helpline at 0333 150 3456.
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