Shy man brings roses and honest charm to his first ever date with bubbly woman in London but mutual attraction fails to spark

Let’s face it, blind dates are kind of like opening a mystery box — you don’t know if you’re unwrapping a spark or a shrug.

This week, 24-year-olds Tyler and Jay took the plunge and met for the first time over lunch. What followed was a mix of sweet moments, awkward energy, and a touch of “maybe we’re just not meant to be.”


Tyler’s Take: Sweet Guy, But No Chemistry

The Dating Scene So Far

Tyler’s no stranger to dating apps, but she’s not a fan of small talk with strangers.

It always feels like an interview,” she says. She had one promising connection before, but his personal circumstances made things too complicated too soon.

Nerves and First Impressions

Like many of us, Tyler felt a flutter of nerves before meeting Jay — after all, it’s hard not to hope for a little magic.

She was touched when he showed up dressed neatly and carrying roses.

That was so sweet,” she says, though she admits the physical attraction wasn’t there.

He had a cute face, but I just didn’t feel that spark.”

Still, she gave him a warm hug — “I’m a hugger!”

How the Conversation Went

Things felt a little stiff at first.

Jay seemed unsure, which made Tyler lean into her curiosity.

He admitted it was his first date ever,” she says, “so I took the lead and started asking lots of questions.”

They talked about family — his is in India, but he’s close to them — and found a shared love of swimming.

A Little Embarrassing Moment

In classic “Tyler fashion,” she left the lunch voucher in the bathroom after reapplying her lipstick.

I’m so scatty sometimes,” she laughed.

Thankfully, she recovered it just in time.

Verdict on Romance

While she thought Jay was genuinely kind, the connection didn’t go beyond friendly.

He’s a sweet soul, just way too introverted for someone like me,” Tyler said.

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