Mary, Dowager Countess of Strathmore, passed away peacefully at the age of 92 at her home in Melrose, located near the Scottish border.
The news was shared by her family, who reflected on her incredible life and lasting impact on both her family and the community.
She was born Mary Pamela McCorquodale in 1932, and her connection to the royal family came through her marriage to Fergus Bowes-Lyon, who was the nephew of the Queen Mother and closely related to Queen Elizabeth II.
A Life at Glamis Castle
For many years, Mary and her late husband, Fergus, called Glamis Castle in Angus their home.
Fergus became the 17th Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne in 1972, and the couple lived there with their children.
Over time, Glamis Castle became a regular destination for royal visits, including Queen Elizabeth and the Queen Mother, Princess Margaret, and Prince Charles.
A family statement described Mary as a ‘marvellous role model’ and noted how deeply loved she was by those around her.
Community and Charity Work
Mary’s love for Glamis and her dedication to the community were central to her life.
Her work with local charities and organizations, including the Multiple Sclerosis Society, Age Concern, and Cancer Relief, made her a beloved figure.
She was also involved in supporting the arts in Scotland and worked tirelessly for the welfare of the local community.
One memorable effort was her campaign to save the local post office in 2008, a place used by the Queen Mother during her stays at the castle.
Her commitment to public service also extended to supporting the Day Care Committee for the Elderly, the Brittle Bone Society, and the Child Psychotherapy Trust.
Mary’s dedication to charitable causes was always apparent, and she touched the lives of many through her work.
A Personal Connection with Queen Elizabeth
Mary had a particularly close bond with Queen Elizabeth.
During the late Queen’s final visit to Glamis before her death in 2022, Mary recalled that they spent time together touring the grounds in a golf buggy.
Mary felt that the Queen was aware it might be her ‘final visit’ and had come to say goodbye.
The Queen had a deep affection for Glamis, a place where many cherished memories were made.
A Rich Family Life and Legacy
Mary’s personal life was filled with both joy and heartache. She had three children—Michael, Elizabeth, and Diane.
She also endured the loss of her husband, Fergus, in 1987, and later, her son Michael, who passed away in 2016.
Despite these challenges, Mary found comfort in her charitable work and the relationships she built within her community.
Her home, Glamis Castle, was also a place of visits from various political figures, including former UK Prime Ministers Margaret Thatcher and John Major.
Mary even welcomed American astronauts through a unique partnership with NASA, demonstrating her wit and humor, especially when she received a call from Air Force Colonel Alvin Drew, joking that she was likely the “only granny” to have ever received a call from space.
Remembering Mary
Mary leaves behind two children, Lady Elizabeth Leeming and Lady Diana Godfrey-Faussett, as well as 11 grandchildren.
To honor her memory, a service of thanksgiving will take place on May 16 at St Fergus Kirk in Glamis.
Her life and legacy will be remembered by all who knew her, particularly for the love and dedication she showed to her family, her community, and her country.