Reality TV has a way of making people feel like they know someone, even if they’ve never met.
That’s what made the news of Spicy Monii’s death hit so hard for fans of Joseline’s Cabaret.
Known off-screen as Monica Sandoval Saavedra, the 35-year-old star was killed in a DUI-related car crash on July 14th — a tragedy that has left her loved ones, fans, and two sons in mourning.
A Community in Shock
The news first broke through her castmate, Dana “Queen Envi” Clark, who shared a post about the accident online.
While Dana didn’t go into much detail, she did confirm it was DUI-related and that the driver involved had survived.
Monica’s sister, Melissa, later confirmed the heartbreaking news, followed by a statement from The Zeus Network, the platform behind Joseline’s Cabaret.
“We’re deeply saddened to share that #SpicyMonii, who brought unforgettable energy to #JoselinesCabaretTexas, has tragically passed away,” the network posted.
“Your energy, beauty, and presence will never be forgotten. Rest easy, Queen.”
A Mom First, Always
Beyond the TV spotlight, Monica was a proud mom of two teenage boys, Tyrese and Angel.
Her sister has launched a GoFundMe campaign to help with funeral expenses and to support the boys in this painful chapter of their lives.
So far, the campaign has raised more than $6,000, and messages of love continue to pour in.
Representing Big and Bold on Reality TV
Monica made a mark on season five of Joseline’s Cabaret, which is known for its unfiltered, X-rated drama.
Hosted by Love & Hip-Hop’s Joseline Hernandez, the show features dancers and sex workers competing for a spot in a touring strip show.
Monica stood out from the beginning — not just because she was the only plus-size contestant that season, but because she proudly repped for curvy women and Latinas.
She didn’t conform to the high-octane drama or bare-it-all culture of the show, and that made her a different kind of standout.
Brushed Off for Not Twerking
While she won over fans, Monica faced criticism on the show.
Some of her co-stars — and even Joseline herself — called her “boring” and reprimanded her for not participating in a poolside twerking session.
That moment ultimately led to her elimination in just the third episode.
Still, Monica left a lasting impression. In the wake of her passing, fans online have praised her for staying true to herself.
One comment read, “I’ll always respect how she didn’t let the show compromise her morals.”
Another added, “She seemed like such a sweet, genuine soul.”
Joseline’s Reaction and Ongoing Tributes
Even Joseline Hernandez appeared moved by Monica’s passing. She left a series of crying emojis under Zeus Network’s Instagram tribute, suggesting that the loss was felt deeply, even if the two didn’t always see eye to eye on screen.
A Family’s Heartfelt Thanks
Monica’s sister Melissa has been sharing regular updates on the GoFundMe page.
In a touching message, she wrote:
“Your generous donations, kind messages, prayers, and love have meant the world to us… Your compassion has been a light during our darkest days.”
She promised that details of Monica’s memorial would be shared soon, and thanked everyone for “holding our family close.”
The Show Must Go On
Meanwhile, production for Joseline’s Cabaret season six is currently underway in California.
Joseline and her dancers are also gearing up for a four-date tour across the state — and yes, cameras will be rolling for the show.
But even as the show moves forward, there’s no denying that Spicy Monii’s absence will be felt — by the cast, the fans, and especially the two boys she leaves behind.