Jamie Laing recently completed a grueling 150-mile run for Comic Relief, raising over £2 million, but something seemed off.
While he was joined by friends and family along the way, many fans were puzzled by the absence of his longtime friend and former co-star, Spencer Matthews.
Given their close bond in the past, Spencer’s absence raised some eyebrows and sparked rumors of a rift between the two reality stars.
The Absence of Spencer Matthews and the Growing Tension
Spencer, an accomplished runner himself, who last year completed 30 marathons in 30 days across the Jordanian desert, seemed like the perfect person to join Jamie on his demanding challenge. Yet, he wasn’t there.
This has fueled further speculation that the childhood friends, once inseparable, may no longer share the same close relationship they once did.
Fans were quick to notice Spencer’s absence, especially considering his athletic background and history of supporting Jamie.
Many took to social media to express their surprise, asking why Spencer wasn’t there when Jamie needed him the most, particularly after Spencer had been so involved in previous milestones in Jamie’s life, like being the master of ceremonies at his wedding.
The Wedding Snub: A Turning Point in Their Friendship
The root of their falling-out appears to stem from a significant incident in 2023, when Spencer was noticeably absent from Jamie’s civil wedding ceremony in London.
Although Spencer attended Jamie’s later celebration in Spain, he was not present at the more intimate registry office ceremony.
The reason? Spencer revealed that he had not been invited, which understandably left him upset.
He later admitted in a podcast with his wife, Vogue, that he felt hurt by the snub, especially since he would have flown anywhere to be there for Jamie on such an important day.
This miscommunication led to a candid discussion between the two on Jamie’s “NearlyWeds” podcast, where Jamie took full responsibility for the oversight, admitting that he assumed Spencer and Vogue were away on holiday and never sent the invitation.
Spencer expressed his disappointment, highlighting how important their friendship was to him.
However, despite clearing the air, things between the two have not been the same since.
The End of Their Popular Podcast and Further Strains on Their Relationship
In November 2024, the duo’s successful podcast, “6 Degrees from Jamie and Spencer,” came to an abrupt end.
Rumors suggest that Spencer’s wife, Vogue Williams, may have played a role in pulling the plug on the show.
Since then, sources close to the pair have noted that their friendship seems to have deteriorated, with Spencer being notably indifferent to Jamie’s major achievements, including his recent Comic Relief challenge.
A source close to the situation stated that Spencer’s absence during Jamie’s challenge was particularly odd, considering how close they once were.
The source described the shift in their relationship as “mysterious,” and it has become a topic of discussion among their mutual friends.
Fans of the duo were left wondering what could have happened to cause such a change.
Jamie’s Emotional Reflection and Acknowledgment of True Friendship
Despite Spencer’s absence, Jamie was clearly touched by the support of his friends and family who showed up for him along the way.
In an emotional moment on his podcast, Jamie choked back tears as he thanked the “great friends” who had been there for him, particularly his co-star Ollie Proudlock, who surprised him during the run.
Jamie shared that the surprise from Ollie was one of the most emotional moments of his journey, and he expressed how grateful he was for the love and encouragement he received from those closest to him.
At the finish line, Jamie was overwhelmed with emotion as his wife Sophie, as well as his father, were there to cheer him on.
These heartfelt moments seemed to highlight the growing importance of his immediate family and close friends in his life, even as his relationship with Spencer appears to be shifting.
What’s Next for Jamie and Spencer?
As their friendship continues to be a topic of speculation, many are left wondering whether Jamie and Spencer can ever return to the close bond they once shared.
While Spencer has expressed his support on social media, his absence during such a pivotal moment in Jamie’s life raises questions about their future together.
For now, Jamie seems to be focusing on the love and support he has from his wife and family, while Spencer remains a more distant figure in his life.
Only time will tell if the two can rebuild their friendship, but for now, their fans will have to keep wondering what really happened behind the scenes to cause such a dramatic shift in their relationship.