Two of the biggest names in women’s football have opened up about a challenge many female athletes face — deciding when to have children without putting their careers on hold.
England stars Alessia Russo and Ella Toone, both key players in Sarina Wiegman’s historic 2022 squad, shared their honest thoughts and concerns in their BBC podcast ahead of the upcoming Euros in Switzerland next month.
The Dilemma Between Family and Football Dreams
In the latest episode of The Tooney & Russo Show, hosted by DJ Vick Hope, who is herself expecting her first child, the players discussed the tough choices female footballers wrestle with: whether to delay having kids to focus fully on football, or to try for a baby while still competing at the highest level.
Ella Toone, 25, who plays for Manchester United and is dating fellow footballer Joe Bunney, admitted she often wonders, “Do I chase my football dreams first, then step away to start a family?”
She joked about already having a long list of baby names saved on her phone and seeing many of her friends become parents while she continues her football journey.
“I’m only 25,” she said, “so for now, I’m focused on what I’m doing.”
Alessia Russo Shares Her Fertility Fears
Arsenal striker Alessia Russo, 26, who led the Women’s Super League in goals this season, revealed that fertility concerns sometimes sneak in when you’re focused on a demanding football career.
“You never know how your body will bounce back after pregnancy, or how long it might take to conceive,” Russo said.
“But you just have to live in the moment.”
She explained how the fast pace of football and the hunger to win can push family plans to the back burner.
Yet, Russo remains optimistic about life beyond football: “It’s exciting to know that after football, there’s a whole new chapter to explore — a second life where you can have a family.”
Club Support Makes a Big Difference
Russo also praised the support Arsenal showed for their teammate Amanda Ilestedt, who gave birth to her daughter Mila last year.
The club has been fantastic in helping Ilestedt return to football, with the little girl often traveling with the team to matches.
“Her body’s been through a lot,” Russo said, “but it’s inspiring to see her journey and how the club stood by her.”
International Pressures and Player Withdrawals
This topic comes as the spotlight shines on the demands of juggling club and international football.
Recently, three stars from England’s 2022 Euros-winning squad have said they won’t play for their country in the upcoming tournament in Switzerland.
Chelsea captain Millie Bright became the latest to step back, announcing she’s unavailable for selection due to not being able to give 100% mentally or physically.
She shared on Instagram how difficult the decision was but felt it was best for her health, future in the sport, and the team’s benefit.
Millie Bright’s Personal Struggles Behind Her Decision
Sources close to Millie Bright suggest her recent split from fiancé Levi Crew, a fitness trainer, played a part in her choice.
The couple had been very close, sharing a home in Surrey and with their families intertwined.
Bright once called Crew her “king” and even has a tattoo of his eye on her arm — something fans have noticed as missing from her recent social media posts, along with the deletion of their engagement announcement.
Despite all this, Bright is focused on recovery and shared a post-surgery photo last Friday, signaling she’s taking the necessary time to heal physically and mentally.