Bloubergstrand’s Small Bay became a place of reflection and remembrance last Sunday as dozens of kite surfers, friends, and local community members came together to pay tribute to Graham Howes.
Surrounded by the ocean he loved, attendees took part in a moving paddle out ceremony, a traditional water-based memorial, forming a circle in the waves and casting flowers into the sea.
The Day Graham Went Missing
Graham Howes, 38, was last seen on Sunday, 7 September, when he set out alone for a kite surfing session from Eden on the Bay.
Concern grew as he failed to return by late afternoon, prompting his family to raise the alarm.
The following morning, his kite and board were found, and later that day a private yacht assisting in the search recovered his body offshore, between Bloubergstrand and Dassen Island.
Community Efforts Lead the Search
The search for Graham highlighted the strength and solidarity of the local community.
Led by the National Sea Rescue Institute (NSRI) and supported by Metro Rescue, SAPS diving units, local fishermen, volunteers, and neighborhood-watch groups, the coordinated effort reflected a profound collective dedication.
“We commend the extensive efforts by all involved that helped bring closure for the family,” said NSRI spokesperson Craig Lambinon.
“Family, friends, coast watchers, and the local kite-boarding community assisted tirelessly with shoreline searches.”
Saying Goodbye on the Water
The tribute paddle out became an emotional occasion as those who loved Graham celebrated his life in the way he would have wanted—on the water.
“Graham wasn’t just an incredible kite surfer,” said fellow surfer James Ryland.
“He was the kind of person who lifted everyone around him. Today was about celebrating that energy.”
“Out here, on the water he loved, we felt connected to him one last time,” added Lindy Morris. “It’s the way he would have wanted us to say goodbye.”
Photos from the ceremony captured surfers clasping hands, dropping flowers, and sharing memories beneath a sunset that set the water aglow.
Kite surfer Kyle Slade reflected, “This is what makes our community special.
In times of heartbreak, we come together, just as we did when searching for him.”
Family Expresses Gratitude and Seeks Privacy
The Howes family released a brief statement thanking the public for their overwhelming support and the coordinated rescue efforts.
They also requested privacy during their period of mourning.
“The past week has been devastating, but we have been comforted by the incredible show of love and support from all corners of the country.
Thank you for helping us bring Graham home.”