In the quest for immortality, many often picture billionaires pouring their wealth into futuristic technologies that promise eternal life.
But in a small care home in Newbury, one 105-year-old woman might have a very different take on the secret to a long, fulfilling life.
Phyllis Inglut, a resident of Newbury Grove, believes that the true key to longevity isn’t about technological breakthroughs or expensive treatments—it’s about embracing life’s fleeting nature.
Phyllis Inglut’s Take on a Happy Life
Phyllis, who recently celebrated her 105th birthday, thinks that the secret to living a long life is as simple as saying “yes” to opportunities.
“Say yes to everything because life passes by so quickly,” she shared with FEMAIL. This positive attitude towards life, coupled with a joyful spirit, has kept Phyllis feeling young even as she approaches her 106th year.
At Newbury Grove, she is part of an inspiring group of centenarians who are all celebrating more than a century of life.
Along with Phyllis, Arthur Croxford, 100, Helen (Lynn) Howorth, also 100, and Barbra Evans, 103, form part of Care UK’s special “Centenarian Club.”
Rather than relying on futuristic science or medical advancements, these centenarians have simple wisdom to share, grounded in life experiences and gratitude.
They reflect on their happiest memories, greatest regrets, and the little things that have kept them going.
Barbra Evans: A Life Well-Lived and Full of Color
Barbra Evans, at 103, is the most stylish resident of Newbury Grove.
With her hot pink outfit, crisp white shirt, and silk scarf, she exudes vitality and joy.
Growing up in London, Barbra admits that she was once “very shy and very selfish,” even believing that attending a private school made her “better than others.”
But over the years, her perspective changed.
One fond memory from her youth was when her older brother arranged for them to ride in the engine room of a train—a unique experience that left her both amazed and slightly worried about getting her socks dirty.
Although Barbra eventually dropped out of school at the age of 16 to pursue cooking, she looks back on the decision with no regrets.
She also fondly remembers riding tandem bicycles with her husband during their marriage.
Though they weren’t “soulmates” or overly romantic, Barbra says they enjoyed each other’s company and had fun together.
They had two sons and also fostered a daughter, but tragically, their youngest son passed away at 22.
Despite this devastating loss, Barbra cherishes the memories she made with her family.
When asked about the secret to her long life, Barbra laughs and says, “I don’t have a secret.
I’m just here! I’m happy, I have fun,” before adding, “Be yourself, don’t be someone you’re not—and always tell the truth.”
Arthur Croxford’s Heartfelt Advice on Life and Love
For Arthur Croxford, who is also 100, his happiest memory was clear: “Getting married.”
His face lights up whenever he speaks of his late wife, Joan, with whom he shared 65 wonderful years of marriage.
Arthur met Joan in 1948 after retiring from the army, where he had served during World War II.
Although he didn’t enjoy his time in the military, meeting Joan brought him a sense of peace and happiness.
Arthur’s life was also marked by a long career as a butcher for the Co-op, where he worked for 40 years.
Reflecting on his life, he admits that he regrets not having a better education, as his mother, who was widowed when he was young, did everything she could to support him and his sister.
Her passing was a difficult moment for Arthur, but losing Joan was even more devastating.
“It left me living on my own for nine years, cooking, doing the washing,” he recalls, showing how much he values the support of his fellow residents and daughters now that he’s at Newbury Grove.
Arthur’s advice for younger generations is to seize every opportunity and, perhaps most importantly, “look after your teeth.”
Lynn Howorth’s Rebellious Streak and Loving Advice
Helen “Lynn” Howorth, also 100, spent her youth with a rebellious streak and had little interest in marriage.
Despite her initial resistance, she eventually married her partner, George, who was much older than her.
Over time, she described their marriage as “the happiest time” of her life.
While Lynn’s son passed away some years ago, she still enjoys close relationships with her son’s fiancée, who visits her regularly.
At 100, Lynn still exhibits her independent spirit. “Sometimes they tell me off because I’m doing something I shouldn’t,” she says with a laugh, recalling her attempt to escape the care home to get onto the main road.
Despite the challenges, Lynn’s philosophy for life is clear: “Not wanting everything and helping other people.”
She finds fulfillment in looking after herself and others, even while coping with her own personal losses.
The Simple Secrets to a Long Life
For these remarkable centenarians, the secret to a long and happy life isn’t about chasing immortality with scientific advancements or medical miracles.
Instead, it’s about cherishing the simple things: saying “yes” to life, staying true to yourself, embracing love and family, and finding joy in the little moments.
Their wisdom is a testament to the power of positivity, resilience, and a life well-lived.